tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4467003177030157342.post8800514733800251593..comments2023-06-12T03:49:29.014-06:00Comments on A Matter of Panache: When Justice Fails the Children: PART III, Kristy's story by Debra SandersDebrahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15643191227109996482noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4467003177030157342.post-21290983382598646202009-07-07T04:13:04.628-06:002009-07-07T04:13:04.628-06:00Mary,
Yes...such a feeling of outrage. It is prof...Mary,<br /><br />Yes...such a feeling of outrage. It is profound.<br /><br />I need to reflect on your thoughts. I have always been one who believes mankind is essentially good, but I have always had that belief while keeping God close to my heart--never pushing God or that Higher Power away.<br /><br />If you can bear to keep reading, at the end, it will be good to hear your thoughts (as well as along the way, too of course!).<br /><br />Thank you for your words Mary and for your outrage.<br /><br />DDebrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15643191227109996482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4467003177030157342.post-20939844386609739602009-07-06T18:43:08.797-06:002009-07-06T18:43:08.797-06:00Debra,
I'm glad you wrote a disclaimer at the...Debra,<br /><br />I'm glad you wrote a disclaimer at the beginning of Kristy's story acknowledging its graphic content. I couldn't get past the first few sentences. It was all the horror I could bear. How much more unthinkable for Kristy, and you as her teacher/friend, to have endured this nightmare.<br /><br />There are no words that can fully express the outrage I feel. I can tell you this, God is angry too. He clearly speaks throughout the Bible of the punishment that awaits those who abuse innocent children.<br /><br />Contrary to what others may say, God tells us to pray for our enemies. Jesus said in Matthew 5:44- 45 "But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons (and daughters) of your Father in heaven." The fate that awakes them (unless they repent--turn away and commit no more evil) of their sins and ask God's forgiveness, they will receive much worse from the Lord than they did to Kristy. <br /><br />God is a a loving Father who hates injustice. Keep bringing this situation before Him in prayer and He will heal both your hearts. Many people might ask the question, "How can this happen to children like Kristy if God is good?" The reason this horrible abuse happens is because the heart of man (apart from the saving grace of God when we surrender our wills to Him and believe His Son Jesus died for our sins)is wicked above all things. What's going on in the world is evidence of how evil man is, not God.<br /><br />Anyone who says that man/woman is basically good just needs to look at how messed up the world is as we push God further away from our lives, our schools, our jobs, and our hearts. <br /><br />I can't begin to know what you and Kristy have suffered, but please turn to the One who can truly heal all the pain and give you song of praise instead of despair. He's longing to surround you with His protective arms. Pray and ask Him what is the right course of action to take. He has promised to provide this. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge (thank and praise) Him, and He will make your paths straight (clear)" Proverbs 3:5-6.<br /><br />Hope this is helpful to you, Debra. Praying for you and Kristy. Keep me updated.<br /><br />Blessings and love,<br /><br />Mary Singer WickMary Singer Wickhttp://extravagantlife.net/site/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4467003177030157342.post-2831117136822179812009-07-05T01:48:38.462-06:002009-07-05T01:48:38.462-06:00Ahh Mary, your words both do my heart good and mak...Ahh Mary, your words both do my heart good and make it weep. Keep reading and at the end, tell me what you think God's intent is. I so like to think that this is about doing the right thing...pure intent.<br /><br />The question becomes....when I have finished writing the story on this blog...then how do I proceed to help Kristy and the far too many others like her.....?Debrahttp://www.debrasanders.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4467003177030157342.post-66157182353510077722009-07-03T15:10:58.098-06:002009-07-03T15:10:58.098-06:00Oh Debra,
What a heartbreaking story, yet there i...Oh Debra,<br /><br />What a heartbreaking story, yet there is great encouragement to be found. What a gift that God has brought Kristy back into your life again! This is proof to you that He knows your intentions were good.<br /><br />I hope you and Kristy find great healing and joy in your friendship. Thank you for candidly sharing with us what a horrible ordeal you have both endured. Per your request, I will share this blog with others.<br /><br />Praying God's angels will minister to both of you,<br /><br />Mary Singer Wick<br />author, Amazon #1 bestseller "My Heart's Desire: A Journey Toward Finding Extravagant Love"Mary Singer Wickhttp://extravagantlife.net/site/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4467003177030157342.post-76629477156567897982009-07-03T14:59:29.787-06:002009-07-03T14:59:29.787-06:00Debra,
Oh my heart was racing as I read about you...Debra,<br /><br />Oh my heart was racing as I read about you and Kristy. I can't even imagine the horror of enduring such an ordeal. It obviously haunted you and Kristy for years when you were not in touch with each other.<br /><br />What a gift from God, to heal both your broken hearts, as you received that loving note from Kristy asking your forgiveness. This is the Lord's way of reassuring you that He knows the truth about what happened, and what your intentions were!<br /><br />Thank you for candidly sharing your story; Kristy's story. Per your request, I will pass along your blog to others who need to know of this. <br /><br />Praying God's angels of protection will continue to surround you and Kristy, and that your friendship deepens over the years.<br /><br />Mary Singer Wick<br />author, Amazon #1 bestseller "My Heart's Desire: A Journey Toward Finding Extravagant Love"Mary Singer Wickhttp://extravagantlife.net/site/noreply@blogger.com