Saturday, September 6, 2008

A Matter of Panache by Debra Sanders

I am one of those people who thinks we all need to do a little bit better when it comes to avoiding the ease and trappings that accepting mediocrity brings. I am a fervent supporter of those who take a stand in effort to make things better for our planet and its no-legged, four-legged, two-legged, winged, single-celled, multi-celled, green, red, black, brown and white inhabitants.

I am also one who has deep respect for those individuals who can do this while demonstrating a little bit of panache, because I’ve learned that displaying passion without panache doesn’t accomplish much.

Not everyone has panache. Genuine panache is kind of like having good skin when you’re sixteen—it’s a remarkable blessing. Not that you’re any less of a person because you don’t have clear skin; it’s just a whole lot easier to get a date if you don’t have to contend with a face covered with obvious blemishes and eruptions.


So it is with panache. If you have it, things in life are just easier. Doors seem to open a little faster, and you can go places and do things that would require a lot more work than if you have, say, a personality that’s kind of.... oily and....you know, inflammatory.

Most of us have met someone during our lifetime with panache. I’m not referring to slick politicians or evangelists who display a kind of practiced and rehearsed (albeit intense and very compelling) sort of magnetism; but rather to the sort of person who displays the kind of genuine charm that turns reluctant bystanders into an avid participants…who seems to inspire affection while fighting for the right things to happen. The person who can advocate for the underdog without coming across like a martyr.

Julia Roberts, as Erin Brockovitch, was a good example of someone with panache. You couldn’t help but like her.

This blog is dedicated to offering people the chance to speak up regarding things they feel passionate about: public education, health care, disability rights, diversity, animal rights, the environment, brain injuries, children, the elderly, kindness. Whatever. But hopefully it’s to be more than a sanctuary with a pulpit from which we each emote, for many of those are already in place.

Here at A Matter of Panache, I hope to create a community where we also learn how to more effectively channel our passions in ways that brings about true reform; a place where we can be both teachers and learners in the art of being, not just passionate, but productively passionate.

So, speak up. Are you one of those individuals who have inspired change—be it within yourself, neighborhood, city or planet? What have been your successes? Where did you go wrong?


Or tell of someone who has impacted you; someone displaying a bit of panache that we can all learn from.

Because when it comes right down to it, I think it’s about more than just being passionate. It’s about displaying our passions in ways that embrace rather than alienates. It's about championing our causes in ways that draw others in and lights the way, making it safer for them to ride our bandwagons.

It's about having both passion and a little bit of panache.







1 comment:

  1. Debra,

    Glad to see your blog! Being a fellow brain injury survivor, I am looking forward to your book to see your passion in how you deal with education and brain injury.

    PASSIONATE: I am passionate about telling people about the loopholes in ERISA law as they relate to long-term disability plans.

    Most of us ignorantly believe that if we are injured, our policy will go into place. I have learned that if you have a long-term disability plan that has words in it that allow the plan administrator "discretionary review", in essence under the laws in most states you are out of luck. Basically it means that if some sort of rational argument has been made by the insurer, the court has to side with the insurance company. The insurance company does not have to listen to your doctors. They don’t have to consider rebuttal information against their expert witnesses etc. They don’t even have to use an expert who has met or examined you. All they need to do is have an argument that sounds reasonable (doesn’t even have to be factual) and they win.

    So this is my current passion: Fight the insurance company and win, educate the public, and tell my story to lawmakers who have the power to change the laws.

    The good news is my plan didn't have the language in it. The bad news is the insurer acted as though it did. Knowledge is power. You can request a copy of your disability plan’s Summary Plan Description. They are required by law to get it to you in 30 days. Find out what your plan says and don't allow yourself or someone you love to be railroaded by insurance companies. This language can be negotiated out of disability plans by your employer when they purchase or renew their coverage.

    I appreciate your efforts to educate the educators about students with brain injuries. Hopefully I can educate the lawmakers about insurance company loopholes so that disabled people can receive the benefits they deserve. (That is a big endeavor – but maybe I can play a part in making it better!)

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